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rrosehobart:

Samuel Beckett

I am just having a lot of feelings about trans*/queer things right now and I don’t want to be having feelings. I don’t want feelings right now.
I’ve tried explaining my gender identity to my mom but she just doesn’t get it and I’ve tried explaining not wanting breasts and she sort of tries to get it, in that she tries to equate it to how her breasts felt “uncomfortable” when she was pregnant and no no no that is not the same at all and she just seems disappointed or mad at me for not being okay with my body and goddammit I do like my body I don’t think I’m fat or ugly I like my body but not my chest these breasts don’t belong here.
I don’t even bother trying to talk to my dad about this stuff. He dismisses all of my feminist or LGBTQ interests and I don’t know why. He treats me like I’m hysterical, seeing issues where there aren’t any. Worse than being disagreed with is being ignored.
Obliquely trying to discuss top surgery and insurance policies and the changing diagnosis parameters of GID and they still don’t get it.
I need money, money, money so that I can do this. This is the one modification that I fucking NEED to make it through life.
I don’t care if it “makes me unattractive” to people.
I don’t care if it “confuses” people.
It’s my body and I have to live in it.
I’m feeling so stuck in uncomfortable skin. I want to cut my hair or get a tattoo or do something to make this body feel like mine for a little while longer.

rrosehobart:

Samuel Beckett

I am just having a lot of feelings about trans*/queer things right now and I don’t want to be having feelings. I don’t want feelings right now.

I’ve tried explaining my gender identity to my mom but she just doesn’t get it and I’ve tried explaining not wanting breasts and she sort of tries to get it, in that she tries to equate it to how her breasts felt “uncomfortable” when she was pregnant and no no no that is not the same at all and she just seems disappointed or mad at me for not being okay with my body and goddammit I do like my body I don’t think I’m fat or ugly I like my body but not my chest these breasts don’t belong here.

I don’t even bother trying to talk to my dad about this stuff. He dismisses all of my feminist or LGBTQ interests and I don’t know why. He treats me like I’m hysterical, seeing issues where there aren’t any. Worse than being disagreed with is being ignored.

Obliquely trying to discuss top surgery and insurance policies and the changing diagnosis parameters of GID and they still don’t get it.

I need money, money, money so that I can do this. This is the one modification that I fucking NEED to make it through life.

I don’t care if it “makes me unattractive” to people.

I don’t care if it “confuses” people.

It’s my body and I have to live in it.

I’m feeling so stuck in uncomfortable skin. I want to cut my hair or get a tattoo or do something to make this body feel like mine for a little while longer.

Source: rrosehobart

saschaeatsteeth:

sunbearsbask:

poofterdagger:

shemalepolice:

a set of screencaps from ‘dys4ia’ an amazing flash game by anna anthropy, based on her experiences with hormone replacement therapy. you can play dys4ia here this is a link.

the gameplay of dys4ia is incredibly simple, but dys4ia tells a really really really personal story, particularly for a flash game. obviously i’m biased, but anna anthropy touches on things with dys4ia that i would struggle to discuss, even with close friends.

at one point, i stopped playing right in the middle of one of the final ‘mini-games’ of dys4ia to watch the sun set and reflect on what some of it meant to me personally. imo, it’s probably some of the most strangely “honest” media depicting transition i have personally experienced.

that said, the game isn’t like, a perfect masterpiece. but it’s VERY COOL IMO idk i am extremely biased just ignore me k wutever. here is what anna had to say on the night she released dys4ia

dys4ia is the story of the last six months of my life: when i made the decision to start hormone replacement therapy and began taking estrogen. i wanted to catalog all the frustrations of the experience and maybe create an “it gets better” for other trans women. when i started working on the game, though, i didn’t know whether it did get better. i was in the middle of the shit detailed in level 3 of the game, and at the time i had no idea what the ending would be; it was hard to envision a happy ending.

this was amazing. there’s also a great interview with anna anthropy at prettyqueer.com at the moment

1. Don’t play this if you’re not ready to cry for about 10 minutes afterwards.
1.5 stuck on level 1 for five months ugh I hate doctors, I hate them, I HATE them. 

omg playing this right now. This is amazing

oh god

my creys

Source: shemalepolice

foreverliberal:

Do Not Ticket Transgender People for Using the Restroom! 
A transgender woman from Dallas was given a ticket and charged with disorderly conduct for using the women’s restroom.
Paula Witherspoon has been transitioning since 2006 and presents herself as a female. There was no one else in the room, but a woman saw her walking out of the restroom and reported her to the police.
She tried to show a transition letter from her doctor, but the police said they have to go by her license — and as of now, her legal name is still Paul Witherspoon. Paula said it was “humiliating, degrading”. 
There are anti-discrimination laws in 16 states and the District of Columbia that protect trans* people from situations such as these, but Texas isn’t one of them. Tell Texas to pass an anti-discrimination law. People should not be ticketed for simply using the bathroom! This is discrimination and it is wrong. 
Sign the petition here.
— Brittany 


TEXAS TUMBLRS, ASSEMBLE!

foreverliberal:

Do Not Ticket Transgender People for Using the Restroom! 

A transgender woman from Dallas was given a ticket and charged with disorderly conduct for using the women’s restroom.

Paula Witherspoon has been transitioning since 2006 and presents herself as a female. There was no one else in the room, but a woman saw her walking out of the restroom and reported her to the police.

She tried to show a transition letter from her doctor, but the police said they have to go by her license — and as of now, her legal name is still Paul Witherspoon. Paula said it was “humiliating, degrading”. 

There are anti-discrimination laws in 16 states and the District of Columbia that protect trans* people from situations such as these, but Texas isn’t one of them. Tell Texas to pass an anti-discrimination law. People should not be ticketed for simply using the bathroom! This is discrimination and it is wrong. 

Sign the petition here.

— Brittany 

TEXAS TUMBLRS, ASSEMBLE!

Source: thepetitionsite.com

It’s still legal to be fired for being trans in the following states:

socialistexan:

Alabama
Alaska
Arizona
Arkansas
Connecticut
Delaware
Florida
Georgia
Hawaii
Idaho
Indiana
Kansas
Kentucky
Louisiana
Maryland
Massachusetts
Michigan
Mississippi
Missouri
Montana
Nebraska
Nevada
New Hampshire
New York
North Carolina
North Dakota
Oklahoma
Oregon
Pennsylvania
South Carolina
South Dakota
Tennessee
Texas
Utah
West Virginia
Wisconsin

hey

that’s go build an awesome trans*/queer commune on the moon

Source: socialistexan

Tumblr support’s response to reporting sophie-von-bayern

janedoe225:

ellewoodsinthetardis:

stfuconservatives:

norweeg submitted

“Hello <me>,
We realize this content may be very upsetting, but we also highly value freedom of expression and freedom of speech.

Sometimes content posted by a blogger may be mean-spirited or upsetting but does not violate the law. In order to maintain freedom of expression, we cannot remove that material.

You can and should stop viewing content from an offending blogger. If you use Tumblr, you can also Block a blogger at http://tumblr.com/block. This prevents you from seeing content from that blogger on your Dashboard and prevents that blogger from sending you messages via Tumblr.

Thank you for taking the time to share your concern with us.

Best Regards,

Mathieu”

Dear Mathieu,

It’s not that its just offensive, it also poses a risk to the safety of these people.  I’m pretty sure stalking people online and posting their pictures, names, and addresses online with the intent of outing them and possibly inciting violence against them violates your terms of service if not the law.

</3

norweeg

______________________________________________

Are you fuckin serious

LET ME QUOTE YOUR FUCKING NEW TERMS OF SERVICE BACK TO YOU TUMBLR

“Don’t post content that violates anyone’s privacy, including personally identifying or confidential information like credit card numbers, social security numbers, unlisted contact information, or private photos of your ex’s junk (no matter how attractive).”

I’M PRETTY FUCKING SURE OUTING MEMBERS OF THE GSM COMMUNITY AND SENDING LETTERS TO THEIR PARENTS SHOULD FALL UNDER THAT CATEGORY????

OMG

if someone dies, it will be on the hands of douchefuck david karp and all the execs on tumblr

good job, tumblr support, good fucking job

Source: stfuconservatives

In the Ring Novel, Sadako was assaulted and raped by a doctor named Nagao Jotaro. However, he discovered her darkest secret, finding she is a hermaphrodite, and possesses a man’s privates. This was not mentioned in the fims and presumably, she is fully female. Sadako attacked Nagao with her powers, forcing him to toss her down a nearby well and he sealed her within. Foreseeing herself being reborn years later, Sadako vowed revenge on the world and died.

Ugh. Seriously problematic language.

The proper term is “intersex,” not “hermaphrodite.”

Also, the gender of a set of genitals is determined by the gender identity of that person.

Ergo, when I say I have a cock, I have a cock. Whether or not you think I do.

If you’re trying to say that Sadako had outie genitals that were incongrous to their assigned gender as a result of being intersex, then you could say that Sadako had “non binary” or “intersex” genitals.

Also, a person is not “fully female.”

A person can be a cis gender woman, meaning that they were assigned female at birth and identify as female. A person can be a trans* gender woman, meaning that they were not assigned female at birth but identify as female. A person could be intersex, meaning that, genetically or physically, doctors considered this person to be of an indeterminate gender, but this person could identify as female.

Anyone that identifies as female is “fully female.”

This may seem like a pointless rant or info that you don’t care about, but I care.

I like horror manga and eroguro manga and I get tired of seeing binarism, cissexism, and heterosexism perpetuated in a media that I enjoy.

Source: hellyeahhorrormanga

hobbitdragon:

testosterone-saurus-rex:

aidensimon:

Autostraddle: 
“Member” features photos of naked men, some trans, some not, to highlight the differences and similarities of all men’s bodies and dispel the notion of one particular “trans body.”

oh this is awesome

Now do this for women!

I approve.

hobbitdragon:

testosterone-saurus-rex:

aidensimon:

Autostraddle: 

“Member” features photos of naked men, some trans, some not, to highlight the differences and similarities of all men’s bodies and dispel the notion of one particular “trans body.”

oh this is awesome

Now do this for women!

I approve.

Source: aidensimon

are you a cis person who wants to know about trans* oppression but feel inclined to ask a trans* person?

janedoe225:

click here.

~quality~

Source: janedoe225

this is super important tw: cissexism ⇢

cornerof5thandvermouth:

fracturedrefuge:

kyriarchy:

http://www.change.org/petitions/berlin-youth-welfare-office-stop-the-institutionalization-of-a-11-year-old-transexual

http://www.iglyo.com/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=256&Itemid=42

Because institutionalization is always, always better for a child than being raised by her loving mother.

Guys, please read and sign.  An 11-year-old trans* girl is being institutionalized because her father does not support her gender identity. 

signal boost guys

trans* people aren’t sick in the head for being trans*

Source: kyriarchy

reject-your-reality:

thecsph:


An Exciting New iPhone App for Transgender and Gender Non-Conforming Folks!
Planned Parenthood of the Southern Finger Lakes’ LGBT Health and Wellness Project, Out for Health, is pleased to present their Pee in Peace App!  This app is designed to help transgender, gender non-conforming,  and other individuals who do not readily fit into expected and  conventional norms of gender presentation, easily locate single stall or  gender neutral bathrooms in Ithaca, New York!
The idea for this app came about after a survey conducted by the San Francisco Human Rights Commission found that nearly 50% of respondents reported having been harassed or  assaulted in a public bathroom. Because of this, many transgender people  avoid public bathrooms altogether and can develop health problems as a  result. It has become Out for Health’s commitment to work toward removing the barriers to accessing safe bathrooms.
About the app:Pee in Peace is the premiere interactive map of MOST single stall and gender neutral  restrooms in Ithaca, New York.  Because public restrooms can pose some  risks (from cleanliness to safety), Out for Health has done the  work for you so you can pee in peace! For anyone who needs quick and  easy access to a private bathroom -  from caregivers for people of a  different sex, to anyone who just prefers a private place, and  especially for transgender and gender non-conforming people who may have  a specific need for safe and private restrooms.  Everyone deserves a  place to pee in peace, right here in Ithaca, New York.
Features:
Interactive map of nearby single stall and gender neutral restrooms.
GPS ‘near me’ search for the closest bathroom.
Quick access to walking or driving directions to get you there fast!
List includes when restrooms are open and key features, including if the restroom is accessible.
Notes section provides special directions for restrooms at local college campus locations.
Out for Health is also working toward adding more locations! If you know of a restroom that should be included please use the feedback button in the app to alert them!
Requirements:
Location data is used to provide walking and driving directions to restrooms and is not collected or stored by the app
Network connection is required to update locations and availability
Network connection is required to provide driving and walking directions
About Out for Health:Out for Health is Planned Parenthood of the Southern Finger Lakes’ LGBT Health &amp;  Wellness Project, providing outreach, education, and information to  Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) people, their health care  providers, and the community at-large about the importance of  inclusive, welcoming, and respectful care for LGBT people. Planned  Parenthood of the Southern Finger Lakes takes pride in assuring that  their diverse patients and communities have access to the sexual health,  wellness services, and information they need. They proudly stand  side-by-side with their LGBT communities as fellow activists, allies,  and people committed to health, wellness, and social change.

Very cool, reminds me of Safe2Pee. :)

WORD

reject-your-reality:

thecsph:

An Exciting New iPhone App for Transgender and Gender Non-Conforming Folks!

Planned Parenthood of the Southern Finger Lakes’ LGBT Health and Wellness Project, Out for Health, is pleased to present their Pee in Peace App!  This app is designed to help transgender, gender non-conforming, and other individuals who do not readily fit into expected and conventional norms of gender presentation, easily locate single stall or gender neutral bathrooms in Ithaca, New York!

The idea for this app came about after a survey conducted by the San Francisco Human Rights Commission found that nearly 50% of respondents reported having been harassed or assaulted in a public bathroom. Because of this, many transgender people avoid public bathrooms altogether and can develop health problems as a result. It has become Out for Health’s commitment to work toward removing the barriers to accessing safe bathrooms.

About the app:
Pee in Peace is the premiere interactive map of MOST single stall and gender neutral restrooms in Ithaca, New York.  Because public restrooms can pose some risks (from cleanliness to safety), Out for Health has done the work for you so you can pee in peace! For anyone who needs quick and easy access to a private bathroom -  from caregivers for people of a different sex, to anyone who just prefers a private place, and especially for transgender and gender non-conforming people who may have a specific need for safe and private restrooms.  Everyone deserves a place to pee in peace, right here in Ithaca, New York.

Features:

  • Interactive map of nearby single stall and gender neutral restrooms.
  • GPS ‘near me’ search for the closest bathroom.
  • Quick access to walking or driving directions to get you there fast!
  • List includes when restrooms are open and key features, including if the restroom is accessible.
  • Notes section provides special directions for restrooms at local college campus locations.

Out for Health is also working toward adding more locations!
If you know of a restroom that should be included please use the feedback button in the app to alert them!

Requirements:

  • Location data is used to provide walking and driving directions to restrooms and is not collected or stored by the app
  • Network connection is required to update locations and availability
  • Network connection is required to provide driving and walking directions

About Out for Health:
Out for Health is Planned Parenthood of the Southern Finger Lakes’ LGBT Health & Wellness Project, providing outreach, education, and information to Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) people, their health care providers, and the community at-large about the importance of inclusive, welcoming, and respectful care for LGBT people. Planned Parenthood of the Southern Finger Lakes takes pride in assuring that their diverse patients and communities have access to the sexual health, wellness services, and information they need. They proudly stand side-by-side with their LGBT communities as fellow activists, allies, and people committed to health, wellness, and social change.

Very cool, reminds me of Safe2Pee. :)

WORD

Source: thecsph

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whitey mcwhiterson, so if you catch me sayin' privileged shit, call me out

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