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saschaeatsteeth:

sunbearsbask:

poofterdagger:

shemalepolice:

a set of screencaps from ‘dys4ia’ an amazing flash game by anna anthropy, based on her experiences with hormone replacement therapy. you can play dys4ia here this is a link.

the gameplay of dys4ia is incredibly simple, but dys4ia tells a really really really personal story, particularly for a flash game. obviously i’m biased, but anna anthropy touches on things with dys4ia that i would struggle to discuss, even with close friends.

at one point, i stopped playing right in the middle of one of the final ‘mini-games’ of dys4ia to watch the sun set and reflect on what some of it meant to me personally. imo, it’s probably some of the most strangely “honest” media depicting transition i have personally experienced.

that said, the game isn’t like, a perfect masterpiece. but it’s VERY COOL IMO idk i am extremely biased just ignore me k wutever. here is what anna had to say on the night she released dys4ia

dys4ia is the story of the last six months of my life: when i made the decision to start hormone replacement therapy and began taking estrogen. i wanted to catalog all the frustrations of the experience and maybe create an “it gets better” for other trans women. when i started working on the game, though, i didn’t know whether it did get better. i was in the middle of the shit detailed in level 3 of the game, and at the time i had no idea what the ending would be; it was hard to envision a happy ending.

this was amazing. there’s also a great interview with anna anthropy at prettyqueer.com at the moment

1. Don’t play this if you’re not ready to cry for about 10 minutes afterwards.
1.5 stuck on level 1 for five months ugh I hate doctors, I hate them, I HATE them. 

omg playing this right now. This is amazing

oh god

my creys

Source: shemalepolice

foreverliberal:

Do Not Ticket Transgender People for Using the Restroom! 
A transgender woman from Dallas was given a ticket and charged with disorderly conduct for using the women’s restroom.
Paula Witherspoon has been transitioning since 2006 and presents herself as a female. There was no one else in the room, but a woman saw her walking out of the restroom and reported her to the police.
She tried to show a transition letter from her doctor, but the police said they have to go by her license — and as of now, her legal name is still Paul Witherspoon. Paula said it was “humiliating, degrading”. 
There are anti-discrimination laws in 16 states and the District of Columbia that protect trans* people from situations such as these, but Texas isn’t one of them. Tell Texas to pass an anti-discrimination law. People should not be ticketed for simply using the bathroom! This is discrimination and it is wrong. 
Sign the petition here.
— Brittany 


TEXAS TUMBLRS, ASSEMBLE!

foreverliberal:

Do Not Ticket Transgender People for Using the Restroom! 

A transgender woman from Dallas was given a ticket and charged with disorderly conduct for using the women’s restroom.

Paula Witherspoon has been transitioning since 2006 and presents herself as a female. There was no one else in the room, but a woman saw her walking out of the restroom and reported her to the police.

She tried to show a transition letter from her doctor, but the police said they have to go by her license — and as of now, her legal name is still Paul Witherspoon. Paula said it was “humiliating, degrading”. 

There are anti-discrimination laws in 16 states and the District of Columbia that protect trans* people from situations such as these, but Texas isn’t one of them. Tell Texas to pass an anti-discrimination law. People should not be ticketed for simply using the bathroom! This is discrimination and it is wrong. 

Sign the petition here.

— Brittany 

TEXAS TUMBLRS, ASSEMBLE!

Source: thepetitionsite.com

It’s still legal to be fired for being trans in the following states:

socialistexan:

Alabama
Alaska
Arizona
Arkansas
Connecticut
Delaware
Florida
Georgia
Hawaii
Idaho
Indiana
Kansas
Kentucky
Louisiana
Maryland
Massachusetts
Michigan
Mississippi
Missouri
Montana
Nebraska
Nevada
New Hampshire
New York
North Carolina
North Dakota
Oklahoma
Oregon
Pennsylvania
South Carolina
South Dakota
Tennessee
Texas
Utah
West Virginia
Wisconsin

hey

that’s go build an awesome trans*/queer commune on the moon

Source: socialistexan

Tennessee state Rep. Richard Floyd, "I Would Stomp A Mudhole In A Transgender Person" ⇢

thebeardedlady:

reagan-was-a-horrible-president:

abaldwin360:

This is Richard Floyd, Tennessee State Representative and sponsor of the Bathroom Harassment Act, a bill that would fine transgender people $50 for using restrooms and dressing rooms.

True to his name, the man is a dick. Here’s a direct quote from this shining example of morality:

believe if I was standing at a dressing room and my wife or one of my daughters was in the dressing room and a man tried to go in there — I don’t care if he thinks he’s a woman and tries on clothes with them in there — I’d just try to stomp a mudhole in him and then stomp him dry.

Don’t ask me to adjust to their perverted way of thinking and put my family at risk. We cannot continue to let these people dominate how society acts and reacts. Now if somebody thinks he’s a woman and he’s a man and wants to try on women’s clothes, let him take them into the men’s bathroom or dressing room.

Think Progress has a video of an interview with Dick Floyd, where he tries to state that the bill doesn’t “penalize anybody,” that it “protects everybody,” and that he could “care less” what transgender advocacy groups think.

Which begs the question, if this guy says that the bill doesn’t penalize anybody, does that mean he doesn’t think of transgender people as “anybody”?

And yes, he’s a Republican. 

Phone (615) 741-2746
Fax (615) 253-0304
rep.richard.floyd@capitol.tn.gov

killllllllllllllllllllllll

…disgusting bigoted shitweasel.

Source: abaldwin360

androphilia:

Black and Transgender : A Double Burden | The Root
A recent report confirms that they face extreme discrimination and poverty.
By Kellee Terrell
October 18, 2011
“Can you imagine what it’s like to see people you work with refuse to  walk on the same side of the street with you or sit with you at lunch,  or to be told that you are unhirable, just because you are a transgender  man?” asks Kylar Broadus, an African-American lawyer and board member  of the National Black Justice Coalition, a national black LGBT civil rights organization based in Washington, D.C.
Broadus, who was born a woman and transitioned into a man 17 years  ago, has been passed over for jobs because of his gender identity. “I’m  basically unemployable because I can’t hide the transgender part of me.  Most likely I am not getting hired once employers see that my Social  Security card and school transcripts all have a female name,” he says.  “I am a human being who deserves the right to make a living like  everyone else.”
Broadus’ experiences are not rare. The harsh reality is that whether  they possess a J.D. or a GED, members of the African-American  transgender community face severe discrimination, according to the  recent study Injustice at Every Turn: A Report of the National Transgender Discrimination Survey (pdf).The survey, the first of its kind, was a collaboration between the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, the National Center for Transgender Equality and the National Black Justice Coalition. It collected data from more  than 6,500 transgender Americans and found that all transgender people  face severe bias ranging from housing and health care to education and  employment.
But when researchers took a deeper look at the discrimination that the black respondents faced (pdf) — all 381 of them — the data jumped out at them. “What was  really poignant were these stark differences. In every case, black  respondents fared worse than the nonblack respondents in the national  survey,” says Darlene Nipper, deputy executive director of the National  Gay and Lesbian Task Force. “This is because black transgender people  face anti-transgender bias coupled with structural and institutionalized  racism.”
The Greater Challenge of Being Black and Trans
Monica Roberts, a 49-year-old black transgender activist and founder of the award-winning blog TransGriot, wasn’t shocked by Injustice at Every Turn’s findings — they reflect what advocates have been saying for years.  “There is this saying that when white America has a cold, black America  has a fever. Well, when black America has a fever, black transgender  America has pneumonia.”
The employment-discrimination data alone support Roberts’ train of  thought. Overall, black unemployment is at an all-time high at 16.7  percent, but 26 percent of black transgender people are unemployed —  that’s three times the rate of the general public and twice that of the  rest of the transgender community. And while a crippling economy is a  serious factor behind the statistics, it’s important to note that  current laws — in 35 states it’s perfectly legal to fire or not hire someone because he or she is transgender — exacerbate these unemployment numbers.
Thirty-two percent of black transgender respondents have lost a job  because of bias; 48 percent were not hired because of bias; 34 percent  were living in extreme poverty, reporting a household income of less  than $10,000 a year; and almost 50 percent admitted to selling drugs or  performing sex work in order to earn money to survive.
Unfortunately, these disparities don’t stop at employment. The report  also found that 20 percent of black respondents are HIV positive (the  general black population’s HIV prevalence rate is 2.4 percent); 21  percent of those who were attending school as transgender people had to  leave because the harassment was so severe; 41 percent have been  homeless in the past (five times the rate of the general U.S.  population); 29 percent of those who had been in jail or prison reported  being physically assaulted, and 32 percent reported being sexually  assaulted; and 34 percent reported not seeking medical attention when  injured or sick for fear of being discriminated against in health care  settings.
A State of Despair
One of the most shocking findings was that nearly half of the black  respondents reported having attempted suicide at least once in their  lives — this rate was higher than that of any other racial group in the  survey.
Nipper states that the numbers speak volumes about the emotional and  mental distress that members of the black trans community endure  throughout their lives. “From cradle to the grave, black transgender  people are experiencing high levels of abuse and harassment from all  over — their teachers, employers, the prison system, the health care  system, you name it,” she says. “And there are barely any safe places  for them to go to deal with this stress.”
Despite the devastating statistics, it’s important to recognize that  the very existence of such data is a victory of sorts because  historically, reaching the transgender community — especially people of  color — has been incredibly difficult for researchers. Even the U.S.  Centers for Disease Control and Prevention falls short on specific data  on transgender people. And despite acknowledging that this community has  the highest HIV risk factors of any group, the CDC lumps transgender  people into the same category as men who have sex with men. (In August the CDC stated that it is revising this approach.)
“We go underreported because we live in fear,” says Broadus. “I  remember first coming out in my community in Missouri, and there were  people who came to see me speak who had literally locked themselves in  their homes and never really came out because they were terrified of  what would happen if they did.”
Nipper adds that her organization understood this fear and created a  grassroots approach in collecting the data. “We did a lot of outreach  across the country. We worked with groups and allies, and we used online  surveys and went to the bars and clubs to really reach the transgender  community to participate in this survey.”
Now advocates have the data they need to prove to lawmakers that this  population needs better protection under the law. “We plan on taking  this data and our recommendations and pushing for, among many things, a  federal anti-discrimination employment bill,” Nipper says.
So Why All The Hate?
Despite the increase in positive media coverage around LGBT issues — and shows such as Glee, Modern Family and True Blood that raise the national consciousness around what it means to be gay or  lesbian — it’s hard to deny that transgender people, especially  African Americans, are somewhat left out of that national conversation.  (The most visible nonwhite transgender faces are Isis from America’s Next Top Model and People.com editor Janet Mock.)
Broadus believes that such blatant omission only leads to more  ignorance, sensationalism and hatred toward his community. “We find  ourselves the butt of joke on The Jerry Springer Show or some sexual fetish in porn,” he says. “We are rarely seen as authentic people.”
Sharon J. Lettman, executive director of the National Black Justice  Coalition, is confident that the report will be a wake-up call for what  African Americans need to do as a community. “Our black transgender  sisters and brothers are black people, too, and we have to love them better.”
The good news is that there has been a surge in black transgender  leadership over the years. Just this May, in conjunction with the  National Black Justice Coalition, Broadus started the Trans People of  Color Coalition as a means for transgender people to advocate for  themselves. “This is an effort to build a movement,” he says. “People  are finding their power and realizing that they are worthy.”
And while black transgender activism is important in changing the  hearts and minds of straight America, it’s also crucial in further  educating the white and black lesbian, gay and bisexual  community, especially the white-dominated LGBT movement, which for years  has been accused of being racist, trans-phobic and AIDS-phobic.
Roberts believes that issues of respectability politics help explain  why gay-friendlier causes such as marriage equality have sucked all the  oxygen out of the LGBT movement and left little space for transgender  issues and black LGBT folks across the board. “There is this illusion of  community, and it’s frustrating as hell,” she says. “Historically, the  transgender community has backed their rights, while they were  stabbing us in the back when it was time to reciprocate. It was black  trans folks who started the Dewey’s lunch-counter sit-in [in  Philadelphia in 1965], and it was trans women like Sylvia Rivera who  jump-started the Stonewall Riots [in New York City in 1969], when the  conservative queers were sitting in their closets.”
In the end, Nipper is bothered by the disinterest of some of her  colleagues when it comes to transgender equality and this particular  report, especially since the ‘T’ of the LGBT community has the potential  to catapult the movement much farther than it’s ever been. “The people  who are the most vilified, the most harassed and the most abused  represent the furthest margins. If we can correct their issues —  transgender issues — we can correct the issues that impact everyone in  this movement.”
Kellee Terrell is an award-winning Brooklyn, N.Y.-based  freelance writer who writes about race, gender, health and pop culture.  Terrell is also the news editor for thebody.com, a website about HIV/AIDS. She blogs about health for BET.com. Follow her on Twitter.
[Image: Screenshot of the portrait of African-American trans man (or FTM) Jay Welch from Evanston, Illinois, in Still Black: A Portrait of Black Transmen, a 2008 documentary film on six black transgender men around the U.S., directed by Kortney Ryan Ziegler. (Youtube)]

androphilia:

Black and Transgender : A Double Burden | The Root

A recent report confirms that they face extreme discrimination and poverty.

By Kellee Terrell

October 18, 2011

“Can you imagine what it’s like to see people you work with refuse to walk on the same side of the street with you or sit with you at lunch, or to be told that you are unhirable, just because you are a transgender man?” asks Kylar Broadus, an African-American lawyer and board member of the National Black Justice Coalition, a national black LGBT civil rights organization based in Washington, D.C.

Broadus, who was born a woman and transitioned into a man 17 years ago, has been passed over for jobs because of his gender identity. “I’m basically unemployable because I can’t hide the transgender part of me. Most likely I am not getting hired once employers see that my Social Security card and school transcripts all have a female name,” he says. “I am a human being who deserves the right to make a living like everyone else.”

Broadus’ experiences are not rare. The harsh reality is that whether they possess a J.D. or a GED, members of the African-American transgender community face severe discrimination, according to the recent study Injustice at Every Turn: A Report of the National Transgender Discrimination Survey (pdf).The survey, the first of its kind, was a collaboration between the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, the National Center for Transgender Equality and the National Black Justice Coalition. It collected data from more than 6,500 transgender Americans and found that all transgender people face severe bias ranging from housing and health care to education and employment.

But when researchers took a deeper look at the discrimination that the black respondents faced (pdf) — all 381 of them — the data jumped out at them. “What was really poignant were these stark differences. In every case, black respondents fared worse than the nonblack respondents in the national survey,” says Darlene Nipper, deputy executive director of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force. “This is because black transgender people face anti-transgender bias coupled with structural and institutionalized racism.”

The Greater Challenge of Being Black and Trans

Monica Roberts, a 49-year-old black transgender activist and founder of the award-winning blog TransGriot, wasn’t shocked by Injustice at Every Turn’s findings — they reflect what advocates have been saying for years. “There is this saying that when white America has a cold, black America has a fever. Well, when black America has a fever, black transgender America has pneumonia.”

The employment-discrimination data alone support Roberts’ train of thought. Overall, black unemployment is at an all-time high at 16.7 percent, but 26 percent of black transgender people are unemployed — that’s three times the rate of the general public and twice that of the rest of the transgender community. And while a crippling economy is a serious factor behind the statistics, it’s important to note that current laws — in 35 states it’s perfectly legal to fire or not hire someone because he or she is transgender — exacerbate these unemployment numbers.

Thirty-two percent of black transgender respondents have lost a job because of bias; 48 percent were not hired because of bias; 34 percent were living in extreme poverty, reporting a household income of less than $10,000 a year; and almost 50 percent admitted to selling drugs or performing sex work in order to earn money to survive.

Unfortunately, these disparities don’t stop at employment. The report also found that 20 percent of black respondents are HIV positive (the general black population’s HIV prevalence rate is 2.4 percent); 21 percent of those who were attending school as transgender people had to leave because the harassment was so severe; 41 percent have been homeless in the past (five times the rate of the general U.S. population); 29 percent of those who had been in jail or prison reported being physically assaulted, and 32 percent reported being sexually assaulted; and 34 percent reported not seeking medical attention when injured or sick for fear of being discriminated against in health care settings.

A State of Despair

One of the most shocking findings was that nearly half of the black respondents reported having attempted suicide at least once in their lives — this rate was higher than that of any other racial group in the survey.

Nipper states that the numbers speak volumes about the emotional and mental distress that members of the black trans community endure throughout their lives. “From cradle to the grave, black transgender people are experiencing high levels of abuse and harassment from all over — their teachers, employers, the prison system, the health care system, you name it,” she says. “And there are barely any safe places for them to go to deal with this stress.”

Despite the devastating statistics, it’s important to recognize that the very existence of such data is a victory of sorts because historically, reaching the transgender community — especially people of color — has been incredibly difficult for researchers. Even the U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention falls short on specific data on transgender people. And despite acknowledging that this community has the highest HIV risk factors of any group, the CDC lumps transgender people into the same category as men who have sex with men. (In August the CDC stated that it is revising this approach.)

“We go underreported because we live in fear,” says Broadus. “I remember first coming out in my community in Missouri, and there were people who came to see me speak who had literally locked themselves in their homes and never really came out because they were terrified of what would happen if they did.”

Nipper adds that her organization understood this fear and created a grassroots approach in collecting the data. “We did a lot of outreach across the country. We worked with groups and allies, and we used online surveys and went to the bars and clubs to really reach the transgender community to participate in this survey.”

Now advocates have the data they need to prove to lawmakers that this population needs better protection under the law. “We plan on taking this data and our recommendations and pushing for, among many things, a federal anti-discrimination employment bill,” Nipper says.

So Why All The Hate?

Despite the increase in positive media coverage around LGBT issues — and shows such as Glee, Modern Family and True Blood that raise the national consciousness around what it means to be gay or lesbian — it’s hard to deny that transgender people, especially African Americans, are somewhat left out of that national conversation. (The most visible nonwhite transgender faces are Isis from America’s Next Top Model and People.com editor Janet Mock.)

Broadus believes that such blatant omission only leads to more ignorance, sensationalism and hatred toward his community. “We find ourselves the butt of joke on The Jerry Springer Show or some sexual fetish in porn,” he says. “We are rarely seen as authentic people.”

Sharon J. Lettman, executive director of the National Black Justice Coalition, is confident that the report will be a wake-up call for what African Americans need to do as a community. “Our black transgender sisters and brothers are black people, too, and we have to love them better.”

The good news is that there has been a surge in black transgender leadership over the years. Just this May, in conjunction with the National Black Justice Coalition, Broadus started the Trans People of Color Coalition as a means for transgender people to advocate for themselves. “This is an effort to build a movement,” he says. “People are finding their power and realizing that they are worthy.”

And while black transgender activism is important in changing the hearts and minds of straight America, it’s also crucial in further educating the white and black lesbian, gay and bisexual community, especially the white-dominated LGBT movement, which for years has been accused of being racist, trans-phobic and AIDS-phobic.

Roberts believes that issues of respectability politics help explain why gay-friendlier causes such as marriage equality have sucked all the oxygen out of the LGBT movement and left little space for transgender issues and black LGBT folks across the board. “There is this illusion of community, and it’s frustrating as hell,” she says. “Historically, the transgender community has backed their rights, while they were stabbing us in the back when it was time to reciprocate. It was black trans folks who started the Dewey’s lunch-counter sit-in [in Philadelphia in 1965], and it was trans women like Sylvia Rivera who jump-started the Stonewall Riots [in New York City in 1969], when the conservative queers were sitting in their closets.”

In the end, Nipper is bothered by the disinterest of some of her colleagues when it comes to transgender equality and this particular report, especially since the ‘T’ of the LGBT community has the potential to catapult the movement much farther than it’s ever been. “The people who are the most vilified, the most harassed and the most abused represent the furthest margins. If we can correct their issues — transgender issues — we can correct the issues that impact everyone in this movement.”

Kellee Terrell is an award-winning Brooklyn, N.Y.-based freelance writer who writes about race, gender, health and pop culture. Terrell is also the news editor for thebody.com, a website about HIV/AIDS. She blogs about health for BET.com. Follow her on Twitter.

[Image: Screenshot of the portrait of African-American trans man (or FTM) Jay Welch from Evanston, Illinois, in Still Black: A Portrait of Black Transmen, a 2008 documentary film on six black transgender men around the U.S., directed by Kortney Ryan Ziegler. (Youtube)]

Source: androphilia

this sums up how I view people that talk about a trans*person’s “original” name or “real” sex
get out of my personal bubble

this sums up how I view people that talk about a trans*person’s “original” name or “real” sex

get out of my personal bubble

Source: tylerfromspace

thealebat:

tainted-bliss:

demonicxavi:

dominic-scaia:

19 year old transman violently attacked for being trans

19-year-old transman, James Alexander, was violently attacked for being trans yesterday morning while going for a walk in his neighborhood. To get to his destination, he had to walk past the house of a girl he was once interested in who had turned him down in the past (saying that “she can’t be with him because he’s not a real man” and that “she’d consider him IF he had a penis.”, and also calling him a “faggot”.), but he didn’t think anything of it, as he’s lived in the area for three years. He certainly wasn’t expecting what was to come.

As he walked past the house of the girl, she came out, and told him she wanted to talk to him. James stopped, to be polite, and because he figured he’d let her say what she needed to say. She asked him if he is a man, to which he said “Yes.”. She then told him to prove he’s a man. He told her off, and began to walk away.  As he was walking away, he felt someone grab the back of his shirt. The person spun him around to face them, and he discovered that it was the girls six-foot-five, 25-year-old boyfriend, Mark. Mark yelled in his face and also told him to prove he was a guy. James told him to back off, and shoved him away. Both the girl and Mark called James a “faggot”, and he began to cry. The two of them then proceeded to make fun of James for crying, saying “Oh look, the little girl is crying”. James started to walk away again, as Mark approached him and punched him in the face, right in the eye.. and continued hitting him repeatedly, while laughing, because James was crying.

James, who is significantly smaller than Mark, at five-foot-eight, and is not a violent person at all, defended himself as best he could, and got away.. but not before he sustained injuries to his face and hand, as well as psychological trauma.

James’ mother called the police, and also had him take photos of his injuries.. but it would seem that Mark is not going to be charged, after all. James explains, “It’s his word against mine. He has his mom, his girl, and three other people saying he didn’t do anything.. so even though I have a broken face and can’t physically stop crying or shaking, he is just getting a warning. I’m pressing charges, but he won’t be arrested. Just told to go to court on a certain day I guess.”

The bottom line is that he was attacked for a specific reason; for being trans. That qualifies what happened to him as a hate crime. This was a violent transphobic attack, and the guy who did this to this 19 year old transman, needs to be charged and convicted accordingly. It’s unfortunate that they won’t arrest Mark.. but I do hope that once this goes to court, he’s punished. He shouldn’t be able to just get away with this. Too many times has an incident like this happened, and the attacker gone free. It’s time we (transgender individuals) started being taken seriously when things like this happen to us.

If anyone who is reading this knows of any resources that could help James to ensure his attacker is convicted (legal counsel for trans people, etc), he can be contacted at ericjames1302@yahoo.com.

Also, if you’re a journalist who would like to write about this, I encourage you to do so, as increasing awareness about this incident is very important. There needs to be a huge public outcry about this. This boy needs all the support he can get. Then, maybe something will be done.
Once again, James can be contacted at ericjames1302@yahoo.com.

Please reblog. Infinitely. The world must hear about this. 

No one should have to go through anything like this. Everyone has the right to be who they are, and accepted. I hope beyond hope that Mark is arrested for doing this.

On top of all that, Mark is pressing charges against James. Because he hit back. Once. In self-defense. And Mark doesn’t have a scratch on him. But the police still showed up at James’ door. He doesn’t deserve something this horrible, nobody does.

I just want to cuddle him and bake him cookies ; u ;

poor bby come to alex 

Source: dominic-scaia

gothicegg:

kateordie:

This ad ran in the National Post today, full page. You might have seen it already, maybe you haven’t. It goes without saying that it’s offensive, awful and downright disgusting. Right?
So, the next time someone accuses me of being transphobic, erasery, ‘heteronormative’ or points out my ‘cisgendered privilege,’ I’m just sending them this ad. Because I’m not the fucking enemy, these people are. I’m queer and I’ve been queer a long time. I’ve dated girls and boys and in-betweens and loved them with all my heart and half the people throwing around these condescending terms can’t say as much and I’d bet my hat on it.
I’m on your side, LGBTQ friends. No, I don’t really like the overcomplicated lexicon. Yes, I think it’s better to explain myself than to get angry at people who don’t understand me. Deal with it. There are bigger problems.

You know what’s corrupting our children? Heteronormative ideals forced upon them by people who refuse to acknowledge the existence of an entire group of people.

don’t care about OPs “wah wah I’m an ally” commentary
do care about how fucking awful this thing is

gothicegg:

kateordie:

This ad ran in the National Post today, full page. You might have seen it already, maybe you haven’t. It goes without saying that it’s offensive, awful and downright disgusting. Right?

So, the next time someone accuses me of being transphobic, erasery, ‘heteronormative’ or points out my ‘cisgendered privilege,’ I’m just sending them this ad. Because I’m not the fucking enemy, these people are. I’m queer and I’ve been queer a long time. I’ve dated girls and boys and in-betweens and loved them with all my heart and half the people throwing around these condescending terms can’t say as much and I’d bet my hat on it.

I’m on your side, LGBTQ friends. No, I don’t really like the overcomplicated lexicon. Yes, I think it’s better to explain myself than to get angry at people who don’t understand me. Deal with it. There are bigger problems.

You know what’s corrupting our children? Heteronormative ideals forced upon them by people who refuse to acknowledge the existence of an entire group of people.

don’t care about OPs “wah wah I’m an ally” commentary

do care about how fucking awful this thing is

Source: kateordie

pinkpanthers:

“Nothing in the world is more dangerous than a sincere ignorance and conscientious stupidity.”- Martin Luther King Jr. 

pinkpanthers:

“Nothing in the world is more dangerous than a sincere ignorance and conscientious stupidity.”- Martin Luther King Jr. 

Source: gayblowjob

Fox News Contributor Dr. Keith Ablow Insults Chaz Bono Over "Dancing With The Stars" ⇢

thepoliticalfreakshow:

Hide your kids! You may have already heard that Chaz Bono, the transgendered former daughter of Cher and Sonny Bono who recently and very publicly underwent gender reassignment surgery, is going to be a contestant on ABC’s extremely popular Dancing with the Stars, where he’ll be competing with a female dance partner. And some people are pissed.

Psychiatrist and frequent Fox News contributor Dr. Keith Ablow reacted to the news with an editorial piece denouncing ABC’s decision and, indeed, denying that transgendered individuals even exist. Here’s an excerpt:

Chaz Bono, the “transsexual” woman who underwent plastic surgery and takes male hormones in an effort to appear to be a man, and who asserts she is a man, will appear on the upcoming season of “Dancing with the Stars”, according to ABC, the network which airs the show. He will be partnered with a woman.

Casting Chaz Bono on “Dancing with the Stars” is part of Chaz’s victory tour, which has included appearances on talk shows and the release of a book called “Transition.”

I advise parents to not allow their children to watch the episodes in which Chaz appears.

Note Dr. Ablow’s use of both the pronouns “she” and “he” after referring to Bono as a woman. He continues:

The last thing vulnerable children and adolescents need, as they wrestle with the normal process of establishing their identities, is to watch a captive crowd in a studio audience applaud on cue for someone whose search for an identity culminated with the removal of her breasts, the injection of steroids and, perhaps one day soon, the fashioning of a make-shift phallus to replace her vagina.

It is a toxic and unnecessary byproduct of the tragic celebration of transgender surgery that millions of young people who do watch “Dancing with the Stars” will have to ponder this question: Maybe my problems really stem from the fact that I’m a girl inside a boy’s body (or a boy inside a girls body).

Now, I don’t mean to be disrespectful to Dr. Ablow, despite the immense lack of respect he has shown for Chaz Bono and transgendered individuals in general. But his argument and understanding of what it means to be transgendered shifts so much within whose few paragraphs that I have to wonder whether he is even certain of what it is he’s trying to convey here.

For one, the decision to undergo gender reassignment is huge. Can you imagine? I don’t mean that rhetorically, either. I mean really: Can you fathom the level of commitment and certainty it takes to change, physically, from a man to a women or vice-versa? The cost. The pain. The time. The effort. The recuperation process. The psychological guidance it takes to understand and utilize a whole new, entirely different body. Personally, I can’t even process that. This is not a decision, despite what the good doctor may imply, that people pursue on a whim or without the go-ahead from a therapist after an extremely long and arduous process, both physical and mental. Tomboyish girls cannot simply waltz into a doctor’s office and announce they would like to become a man. That’s just not how it works! Furthermore, while puberty is definitely a confusing, weird time characterized by self-doubt and shifting hormones (And, while those hormones might bolster the argument that, you know. Teens can make really awful, rash decisions.), if all it takes is looking at a transgendered person receiving applause to make you want to surgically and permanently alter your genitals, your problem might be something other than a gender identity issue. Is the fear here that being transgendered, like, seems really fun? Like, “This person is getting applause! I like applause! Maybe I should divorce my penis?”

I just… don’t buy that.

If a child is indeed transgendered, Dr. Ablow (and, even if you deny that this condition exists, like, medically, the mere existence of people who discuss and claim to have this condition makes it real in the sense that, look, this is something we can refer and discuss, this is a phenomenon that happens and that has a name), they will not realize it suddenly while sitting in front of a TV watching Chaz perform the paso doble. That doubt, that inkling will have existed long before, and will have manifested itself in myriad other forms. And, indeed, struggles with sexuality =/= struggles with gender identity. I would think a psychiatrist privy to research, case studies and flesh-and-blood patients would understand this and it concerns me that someone who represents the psychiatric profession seems to speak about a condition with such a lack of respect and professionalism. “She,” “he,” woman, man. Tomboy, lesbian, transman. Who cares, right? I don’t know: Maybe patients? Maybe your viewers? (Fox News, I implore you: Find a psychiatric / psychological professional who knows the difference between gender identity and sexual orientation and who knows the process for undergoing gender reassignment surgery, even if he or she doesn’t condone it. That is all I ask. I can tell you there are many serious mental health professional — who are conservative as they come, at that! — who know this difference and who have done their homework.)

So. What I’d like to know is this:

If you, reader, believe that transgenderism does not exist as a valid condition, do you also believe that the impulse to switch gender is, as Dr. Ablow suggests, “contagious?” Do you share his fear for young kids exposed to transgendered individuals? Did you find his editorial right on the mark? Do you find it unprofessional? Let me know.

h/t FoxNews.com

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