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rrosehobart:

Samuel Beckett

I am just having a lot of feelings about trans*/queer things right now and I don’t want to be having feelings. I don’t want feelings right now.
I’ve tried explaining my gender identity to my mom but she just doesn’t get it and I’ve tried explaining not wanting breasts and she sort of tries to get it, in that she tries to equate it to how her breasts felt “uncomfortable” when she was pregnant and no no no that is not the same at all and she just seems disappointed or mad at me for not being okay with my body and goddammit I do like my body I don’t think I’m fat or ugly I like my body but not my chest these breasts don’t belong here.
I don’t even bother trying to talk to my dad about this stuff. He dismisses all of my feminist or LGBTQ interests and I don’t know why. He treats me like I’m hysterical, seeing issues where there aren’t any. Worse than being disagreed with is being ignored.
Obliquely trying to discuss top surgery and insurance policies and the changing diagnosis parameters of GID and they still don’t get it.
I need money, money, money so that I can do this. This is the one modification that I fucking NEED to make it through life.
I don’t care if it “makes me unattractive” to people.
I don’t care if it “confuses” people.
It’s my body and I have to live in it.
I’m feeling so stuck in uncomfortable skin. I want to cut my hair or get a tattoo or do something to make this body feel like mine for a little while longer.

rrosehobart:

Samuel Beckett

I am just having a lot of feelings about trans*/queer things right now and I don’t want to be having feelings. I don’t want feelings right now.

I’ve tried explaining my gender identity to my mom but she just doesn’t get it and I’ve tried explaining not wanting breasts and she sort of tries to get it, in that she tries to equate it to how her breasts felt “uncomfortable” when she was pregnant and no no no that is not the same at all and she just seems disappointed or mad at me for not being okay with my body and goddammit I do like my body I don’t think I’m fat or ugly I like my body but not my chest these breasts don’t belong here.

I don’t even bother trying to talk to my dad about this stuff. He dismisses all of my feminist or LGBTQ interests and I don’t know why. He treats me like I’m hysterical, seeing issues where there aren’t any. Worse than being disagreed with is being ignored.

Obliquely trying to discuss top surgery and insurance policies and the changing diagnosis parameters of GID and they still don’t get it.

I need money, money, money so that I can do this. This is the one modification that I fucking NEED to make it through life.

I don’t care if it “makes me unattractive” to people.

I don’t care if it “confuses” people.

It’s my body and I have to live in it.

I’m feeling so stuck in uncomfortable skin. I want to cut my hair or get a tattoo or do something to make this body feel like mine for a little while longer.

Source: rrosehobart

davideveritthowe:

“Two years ago at St. Cecilia’s abandoned convent in Greenpoint, Brooklyn, the New York-based artist [Yve Laris Cohen] prepared for his performance WILLY, clustering several softboxes and umbrella lights in front of a marble altar. For several hours on the night of November 6, 2010, he performed the iconic mad scene from the ballet Giselle…over and over again, endlessly deferring its end until his body, exhausted, could hardly perform the part. Wearing nothing but football trousers and sneakers, Cohen, who is transgender, left his mastectomy scars clearly visible. They cast the ballet’s male-female archetypes in dubious relief, as if WILLY was an attempt, in vain, to alter them.”

-yours truly, an excerpt from a feature I wrote for the March issue of Modern Painters

Source: davideveritthowe

essbeckett:

My cover for an upcoming zine by the FMLA. It will be available at Queer Bomb in Austin.

essbeckett:

My cover for an upcoming zine by the FMLA. It will be available at Queer Bomb in Austin.

Source: essbeckett

my midterm essays from my “psychosocial issues in LGBTQ communities” class

in case you’re interested.

Note: these essays had a word limit so I couldn’t go in-depth the way that these subjects really require.

Essay One — applying Foucault’s theories to lesbian health issues and suggestions for therapeutic work on that issue

By dint of being a woman, a lesbian is in a position of lesser privilege, compounded further by her status as a sexual minority, and possibly even more so if the lesbian in question is a woman of color. In their study of attempted suicide among transgender individuals, Clements-Nolle, Marx and Katz (2006) cite previous research that shows “lesbian, gay, and bisexual (LGB) individuals are more likely to attempt suicide than their heterosexual counterparts (Cochran & Mays, 2000; Faulkner & Cranston, 1998; Garofalo, Wolf, Wissow, Woods & Goodman, 1999; Remafedi, French, Story, Resnick, & Blum, 1998),” positing that “discrimination and victimization are related to several measures of psychological distress, such as anxiety and depression… that in turn may increase one’s risk of attempting suicide.” Working with a lesbian client necessitates addressing that some issues may arise from societal discrimination rather than individual psychology. Foucault’s analysis of the systems of power that are built up around sexuality may aid the therapist, or the client themselves, in better understanding the power differentials that exist in life as a lesbian.

Foucault’s very first point when discussing these systems of power is the “hysterization of women’s bodies” (1978). With the growth of medicine and psychology, the female body was analyzed, deemed pathologically sexual and remanded to the medical realm. In the case of lesbians, they were also subject to the “psychiatrization of perverse pleasure” which “assigned a role of normalization or pathologization with respect to all behavior…” (Foucault, 1978). The view of lesbians as pathological is a deeply embedded one. Karl Ulrich’s outdatedly fanciful theory of “spiritual inversion” (Valentine, 2007) has its modern counterparts, evinced in the search for a “gay gene” or any concrete, medical explanation for sexual orientation. Several studies suggest that women with congenital adrenal hyperplasia (CAH) exhibit a higher rate of lesbianism and “gender nonconformity” as children, (Ehrhardt, Evers, & Money, 1968; Berenbaum & Hines, 1992; Ehrhardt & Baker, 1974; as cited in Bailey, 1995) presumably due to their “masculinized” physiology and neurochemistry. By turning a woman’s body into a medical subject, the woman’s individual agency is taken away. The body of a lesbian is a further oddity and her identity is not authentic until it has been validated by a medically discernible factor.

This contentious relationship with the medical establishment may lead some lesbians to avoid contact with medical practitioners, even to the point of serious ailments going undiagnosed and untreated. Stein and Bonuck (2001; as cited in Harcourt, 2006) reported that, in a study of gays and lesbians in New York, 17% reported avoiding or delaying a medical visit for fear of their sexual orientation leading to discrimination. In the area of lesbian medical health, a therapist may work with their client on being more assertive with their doctor. This could mean asking the doctor about their knowledge of LGBTQ issues and requesting a referral to one that is more knowledgeable, if need be, or even simply gathering the courage to make a doctor’s appointment in the first place.

Anxiety and depression generated by societal discrimination may be more difficult to address because it is initially perpetrated by an outside source but may become lodged in the mind. It is the role of the therapist to help their client dismantle the negative beliefs about their own sexuality that they may have internalized. While eradicating internalized homophobia may not stop homophobia in others, being freed from unwarranted self-loathing can be quite powerful and, clearly, more psychologically healthy.

Essay Two — applying Foucault’s theories to trans* people and suggestions for therapy

Transgender individuals exist in a nebulous area of society, the groups included under this umbrella-term fluctuate, depending on just who is using the term. The position of trans* people in Foucauldian power structures is difficult to discern. Certainly, they are as entrenched in this power structure as anyone is, but their positions may shift as their identities. In fact, Valentine (2007) cites Stryker’s (1998) statement that identifying as transgender is “a way of wresting control… from medical and mental health professionals to replace… pathology with… self-determination…”  exemplifying Foucault’s statement that “where there is power, there is resistance” (1978). But this power struggle is quickly reframed with Foucault’s  principle of “the psychiatrization of perverse pleasure.” While a trans* person may view their transgender identity as a strike against a society that is heterosexist and cissexist, medical and psychiatric authorities are the ultimate gatekeepers to the tools for a trans* person to affect their transition.

A key component to the removal of homosexuality from the DSM was the assertion that there was no difference between a “normal” homosexual and a “normal” heterosexual, as shown in Evelyn Hooker’s groundbreaking 1957 study (Kimmel & Garnets, 2003). Essentially  “a claim to invisibility,” (Valentine, 2007) this approval of heteronormative same-gender desire was followed by the creation of Gender Identity Disorder, the diagnosis for those whose transgressions were not invisible. In allying themselves with heterosexuals, in becoming people that did not need a “cure,” homosexuals delineated themselves from transgender people, creating a new hierarchy. A trans* person’s access to hormones and surgery is predicated on a diagnosis of Gender Identity Disorder and “medical providers must be certain that the person who is being treated with cross-sex hormones or who is receiving genital surgery is actually transsexual” (Lev, 2007) which has led to trans* individuals whose identity lies entirely outside of a binary gender system to “lie and create false narratives so that they could be approved for treatments” (Lev, 2007). While there is an emerging view that the current rigid classifications do not fully represent the plethora of gender identities and expressions and instead “encourage educated consent and advocacy instead of expert approval” (Lev, 2007), it is telling of the power wielded by the medical establishment that they must be the ones to come to this conclusion in order for nonbinary trans* people’s identities to be seen as valid.

Working with a transgender client may be trying, in that many of the difficulties they face are “socially structured and sanctioned phenomenon… intended to maintain privileges for members of dominant groups at the cost of deprivation for others” (Krieger, 2000; as cited in Harcourt, 2006). While a therapist may wish they could change society to fit the client, rather than advise the client on how to cope with a society that rejects them, such actions aren’t feasible. As important as it is to facilitate the client’s identity formation on a personal level, it is also important to help them with their identity within society at large. Hormone treatment, surgery, or even different clothing can change the way that an individual is perceived. A female-to-male trans* person may find that, because they can be “read” as masculine, they now have access to the socioeconomic advantages bequeathed to men. Conversely, a male-to-female trans* person may experience increased disadvantages because of their female identity, or discrimination through the invalidation of that female identity. In these instances, the therapist may best serve their client by helping to deconstruct the assumptions built around their new role, and it is imperative that the therapist remain objective and lead the client to their own identity, without pushing for a more restrictive or a more fluid identity.

foreverliberal:

Do Not Ticket Transgender People for Using the Restroom! 
A transgender woman from Dallas was given a ticket and charged with disorderly conduct for using the women’s restroom.
Paula Witherspoon has been transitioning since 2006 and presents herself as a female. There was no one else in the room, but a woman saw her walking out of the restroom and reported her to the police.
She tried to show a transition letter from her doctor, but the police said they have to go by her license — and as of now, her legal name is still Paul Witherspoon. Paula said it was “humiliating, degrading”. 
There are anti-discrimination laws in 16 states and the District of Columbia that protect trans* people from situations such as these, but Texas isn’t one of them. Tell Texas to pass an anti-discrimination law. People should not be ticketed for simply using the bathroom! This is discrimination and it is wrong. 
Sign the petition here.
— Brittany 


TEXAS TUMBLRS, ASSEMBLE!

foreverliberal:

Do Not Ticket Transgender People for Using the Restroom! 

A transgender woman from Dallas was given a ticket and charged with disorderly conduct for using the women’s restroom.

Paula Witherspoon has been transitioning since 2006 and presents herself as a female. There was no one else in the room, but a woman saw her walking out of the restroom and reported her to the police.

She tried to show a transition letter from her doctor, but the police said they have to go by her license — and as of now, her legal name is still Paul Witherspoon. Paula said it was “humiliating, degrading”. 

There are anti-discrimination laws in 16 states and the District of Columbia that protect trans* people from situations such as these, but Texas isn’t one of them. Tell Texas to pass an anti-discrimination law. People should not be ticketed for simply using the bathroom! This is discrimination and it is wrong. 

Sign the petition here.

— Brittany 

TEXAS TUMBLRS, ASSEMBLE!

Source: thepetitionsite.com

Virginia passes bill to ban LGBT parents from adopting

gothicegg:

stfuconfederates:

abaldwin360:

The Virginia Senate passed a bill Monday afternoon that would allow private adoption agencies to discriminate against same-sex parents, according to The Washington Post.

The bill, which passed by a 22-18 margin, gives adoption agencies the power to deny child placement if it conflicts with their moral or religious beliefs. The bill has already passed the state House and Governor Bob McDonnell has indicated that he will sign the bill once its comes to his desk.

North Dakota is the only state in the nation that allows private adoption agencies to discriminate.

The pro-LGBT group Equality Virginia have yet to issue a statement on the vote.

source - The Raw Story

get me the fuck out of here

no birth control to keep people from getting pregnant. no abortion so they stay pregnant. no adoption for parents who desperately want children.

yes the perfect system.

moon colony

let’s do it

Source: abaldwin360

essbeckett:

Check it! My art for the Atomic TanLines!

essbeckett:

Check it! My art for the Atomic TanLines!

Source: essbeckett

of-praxis:

princehandsome:

thenizu:

of-praxis:

Gay Texas judge won’t marry straight couples
Tonya Parker, an African-American lesbian judge in Texas, refuses to marry straight couples until everyone in the state has the right to marry.
Turning away would-be newlyweds is “my opportunity to give them a lesson about marriage inequality in this state,” Parker told a meeting of the Stonewall Democrats of Dallas earlier this week.
She said it’s “oxymoronic” for her to perform a ceremony that can’t be performed for her.
Instead, she refers couples to other judges in the courthouse with an explanation along the lines of “I’m sorry. I don’t perform marriage ceremonies because we are in a state that does not have marriage equality, and until it does, I am not going to partially apply the law to one group of people that doesn’t apply to another group of people,” she told the meeting.

#perfecthumanbeing

No. Wrong. When you’re being treated unfairly you don’t treat other people unfairly. That’s just a vicious cycle, because then when this judge treats those straight people unfairly, they’ll feel justified in treating gay people unfairly, and then gay people will feel justified in treating straight people unfairly, etc etc.
This is not how you get your way. You don’t act like a brat and say “Well if I can’t get married, NOBODY CAN!!!!!!!!!”

waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah
she controls all the marriage licenses in the WORLD
STRAIGHT PEOPLE CANT GET MARRIED
REVERSE RACISM! but you know with gay people

I need to hug you

of-praxis:

princehandsome:

thenizu:

of-praxis:

Gay Texas judge won’t marry straight couples

Tonya Parker, an African-American lesbian judge in Texas, refuses to marry straight couples until everyone in the state has the right to marry.

Turning away would-be newlyweds is “my opportunity to give them a lesson about marriage inequality in this state,” Parker told a meeting of the Stonewall Democrats of Dallas earlier this week.

She said it’s “oxymoronic” for her to perform a ceremony that can’t be performed for her.

Instead, she refers couples to other judges in the courthouse with an explanation along the lines of “I’m sorry. I don’t perform marriage ceremonies because we are in a state that does not have marriage equality, and until it does, I am not going to partially apply the law to one group of people that doesn’t apply to another group of people,” she told the meeting.

#perfecthumanbeing

No. Wrong. When you’re being treated unfairly you don’t treat other people unfairly. That’s just a vicious cycle, because then when this judge treats those straight people unfairly, they’ll feel justified in treating gay people unfairly, and then gay people will feel justified in treating straight people unfairly, etc etc.

This is not how you get your way. You don’t act like a brat and say “Well if I can’t get married, NOBODY CAN!!!!!!!!!”

waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah

she controls all the marriage licenses in the WORLD

STRAIGHT PEOPLE CANT GET MARRIED

REVERSE RACISM! but you know with gay people

I need to hug you

Source: cosmopolitan-fascist

sexismandthecity:


Sts. Sergius and Bacchus(martyred ca. 303)
Sts.  Sergius and Bacchus are ancient Christian martyrs who were tortured to  death in Syria because they refused to attend sacrifices in honor of  Jupiter. Recent attention to early Greek manuscripts has also revealed  that they were openly  gay men and that they were erastai, or lovers.  These manuscripts are found in various libraries in Europe and indicate  an earlier Christian attitude toward homosexuality.
After their  arrest, the two saints were paraded through city streets in women’s  clothing, treatment that was meant to humiliate them as officers in the  Roman army. They were then separated and each was tortured. Bacchus died  first and appeared that night to Sergius, who was beginning to lose  heart. According to the early manuscripts, Bacchus told Sergius to  preserve, that the delights of heaven were greeter than any suffering,  and that part of their reward would be to be re-united in heaven as  lovers.
The feast of these saints is October 7. The inscription at  the bottom of the icon is their names in Arabic. The saints are  particularly popular throughout the Mediterranean lands, in Latin  America, and among the Slavs. For nearly a thousand years they were the  official patrons of the Byzantine armies, and Arab nomads continue to  revere them as their special patron saints.

sexismandthecity:

Sts. Sergius and Bacchus
(martyred ca. 303)

Sts. Sergius and Bacchus are ancient Christian martyrs who were tortured to death in Syria because they refused to attend sacrifices in honor of Jupiter. Recent attention to early Greek manuscripts has also revealed that they were openly gay men and that they were erastai, or lovers. These manuscripts are found in various libraries in Europe and indicate an earlier Christian attitude toward homosexuality.

After their arrest, the two saints were paraded through city streets in women’s clothing, treatment that was meant to humiliate them as officers in the Roman army. They were then separated and each was tortured. Bacchus died first and appeared that night to Sergius, who was beginning to lose heart. According to the early manuscripts, Bacchus told Sergius to preserve, that the delights of heaven were greeter than any suffering, and that part of their reward would be to be re-united in heaven as lovers.

The feast of these saints is October 7. The inscription at the bottom of the icon is their names in Arabic. The saints are particularly popular throughout the Mediterranean lands, in Latin America, and among the Slavs. For nearly a thousand years they were the official patrons of the Byzantine armies, and Arab nomads continue to revere them as their special patron saints.

Source: Flickr / radiant-baby

t-wood:

In honor of the Feminist Porn Award nomination for Brunch Bunch: Queerly SF from Dolores Park Studios, here’s the cast : )

Find Brunch Bunch at Early2bed.com, toolshedtoys.com, smittenkittenonline.com and goodvibes.com.

my body is ready

Source: t-wood

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