snuffboxisdead replied to your post: People are sniggering about the idea of pubic…
My shaved body does not look like the body of a pre-pubescent child & I never for one moment have thought my partner would prefer such a body, just as I prefer his obviously 36 year body to be completely shaved.
I totally get that.
I’m not saying everyone that enjoys shaving wants sex with a pre-adolescent. Not at all. There is a definite aesthetic appeal to it that even I can see. These feelings are my totally biased, gut reactions. The minute, in a conversation, that someone assumes women (and they assume I’m a woman) must shave their genitals, I get angry. My issues with shaved vulvas is one I’m trying to work through, and I’m not claiming that my feelings are universally true and should be applied to everyone. Just that, based on my experiences and where I am in my life right now, shaved vulvas freak me the fuck out.
If I had a partner that preferred to shave, I’d be fine with that. But they’d have to understand that I’m not at a point where I would be comfortable with removing my pubic hair. And maybe I never will be
