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The reality of what women, even feminists, find pleasurable is not always politically correct. Sexuality is not neat and clean. I have talked to many feminist women who struggle to balance what really happens behind closed doors and what they feel the bedroom politics of a “good feminist” should be. Enjoying BDSM, strap-on sex and sex toys, genderplay, rape and incest taboo, mainstream pornography, and other “deviant” sexual taboos with a consensual partner does not make a person a “bad feminist” or a hypocrite. To the contrary, feminism is what gave me permission to love sex, with myself and with others, to embrace my sexual orientation, and find out what turns me on. Pro-sex feminism argues that recognizing the role of fantasy in sexual arousal and coming out of shame about sexual desires opens the door to a more frank and honest discussion about women’s bodies, consent, and safer sex. And that leads to better, safer sex that encourages communication and complete, enthusiastic consent to sex that is fulfilling and healthy. How is that not feminist?

- Feminist Porn: Sex, Consent, and Getting Off  (via ceedling)

Precisely.

(via junkyard-bodhisattva)

Yessssss.

Sometimes I run into content that (I feel) masquerades as consensual BDSM but is just so vile and honestly hateful towards the submissive partner that it makes me begin to hate myself for having interest in any form of BDSM.

I have to take a step back and look at my feelings about the sexual acts that turn me on. There are some that I would never do in real life, plenty that I wouldn’t do without discussion beforehand, and some that I couldn’t imagine NOT including in a sexual relationship.

My obsessive navel-gazing can be a good thing, it helps me to understand myself separate from common misconceptions.

Source: feministe.us

2 February 3434 junkyard-bodhisattva

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